Is your spouse too hot?
In university, I wrote a paper on the role of attractiveness in selecting one’s spouse. I was interested in this issue because, whilst the evidence strongly supported the proposition that spouses tended to be similarly attractive, the prevailing causal theory didn’t sit well with me. The prevailing theory explained the evidence as follows:
- everyone tries to get the hottest guy or girl they can,
- the distribution of attractiveness of men and women follows the same curve, thus
- the hottest couples pair off and the less hot couples settle for each other.
The reason this didn’t sit well with me, aside from dooming me to never be with hot chicks, was that, whilst couples on average tended to be similarly attractive, the evidence showed substantial variance in attractiveness. If everyone was pairing off as the theory suggested, the variance should be minimal or at least consistent across the population.
After gathering as much of the data from previous studies as I could get my hands on, I found that a different model also explained the observation that couples tend to be similarly attractive. My model was that each person has a base attractiveness requirement that, once met, permitted selection on other characteristics such as sense of humour, confidence, or skill at dancing the Macarena. This explained both the average result as well as the variance and, with dancing practice, meant that I too could one day score hot chicks.
Successful long-term supplier relationships seem to follow a similar pattern. Once the buyer and supplier are satisfied that they are receiving a demonstrably attractive price, they can then focus on other aspects of the relationship such as innovating to create additional value for their companies, investing to integrate their AP/AR systems to transact more quickly and easily etc. Conversely, selecting the supplier with the most attractive price may require forgoing other characteristics that may be more valuable to you than exceeding your base price requirements.
1 comment September 7, 2007
